In his TED Talk, “Why Aren’t We More Compassionate?”, Daniel Goleman explores the reasons behind why we aren’t always compassionate. He suggests that in many cases it can be as simple as how much of a hurry we are in. If our focus and attention is set in another direction, our tendency to behave compassionately is reduced. If we are focused on ourselves and where we need to be, that leaves very little room for us to fully notice the other. Daniel shares his personal experience of ‘shaking out of his urban trance’ to help a homeless man and it involved the simple act of noticing. It seems we go around quite oblivious to much that is happening around us.
Could it really be so simple that in order to be more compassionate we merely need to pay attention to our surroundings and the people in them?
There has actually been some research on the co-relation between mindfulness and compassion and the connection can be transformational. This research has consistently found that mindfulness increases empathy and compassion for others and for yourself. It starts with being mindful and cultivating kindness toward yourself. The practice of mindfulness strengthens our skills of compassion.
Have you considered adding mindfulness exercises to your own routine? Contact Manon Dulude at firstname.lastname@example.org for more information on how to get started.
For confidential discussion, call Manon Dulude at (905) 873-9393.